No Skills? No Problem! Why Being Positive Makes You a Popular Padel Player

Let’s be honest—I’m not exactly a padel prodigy. My smashes lack power, my bandejas are hit-or-miss (mostly miss), and my volleys? Well, let’s just say they often find the walls more than the court. 

But here’s the thing: I still get invited to play regularly, sometimes even by better players. Not because of my technical skills, but because I bring something just as valuable—positive energy. And guess what? You can do the same.

Skills Fade, but Good Vibes Stick

I’ve played with people who could hit impossible angles and smash with the power of a wrecking ball. But if they were grumpy, condescending, or constantly complaining, the game felt like a chore. On the other hand, I’ve shared the court with players whose technique was questionable at best (hi everyone!)—but their smiles, encouragement, and humor made every game feel like a highlight reel.

In padel, being the most positive player on the court can make you the most popular, no matter how inconsistent your shots are.

How to Be the Most Encouraging Player (Even If You Suck)

1. Cheer for Your Partner—Loudly

Every time your partner hits a good shot—whether it’s a powerful smash or just a lucky lob—let them know you noticed.

“Great shot!”

“You’re on fire today!” 

Even if your own game is falling apart, being your partner’s biggest fan will keep their spirits high—and they’ll love playing with you for it.

2. Laugh Off Your Mistakes

Let’s face it: you’re going to mess up—a lot. Missed smashes, clumsy returns, or even whiffing the ball entirely. (We’ve all been there.)

Instead of groaning or apologizing excessively, shrug it off with a smile:

“Oops! That was a warm-up shot!”

“I was just testing the net’s reflexes.” 

By keeping the mood light, you prevent tension from building up—and you’ll probably play better because of it.

3. Compliment Your Opponents

This might sound counterintuitive—why hype up the people trying to beat you? Simple: it makes you stand out as a class act.

When they hit a clever drop shot:

“Great touch!”

If they pull off a tricky angle:

“Nice shot—didn’t see that one coming!”

A little sportsmanship goes a long way, and you’ll earn respect (and game invites) for it.

4. Celebrate Even the Small Wins

Not every game will be filled with highlight-reel moments. Sometimes, just making a decent return or keeping a rally going is worth celebrating.

“Yes! We kept that one alive!”

“Nice save! That was all you!”

By finding joy in the small victories, you make the game fun—even if the scoreboard says otherwise.

5. High-Fives and Fist Bumps for the Win

Never underestimate the power of physical encouragement. A simple high-five, fist bump, or even a pat on the back after a good point can do wonders for morale.

Even if you just botched the easiest volley of your life, keep the good vibes flowing with a quick tap of the racket or a playful smile.

The Unexpected Perks of Positivity

You might think that being a cheerful player is just about being polite, but it actually makes you a better and more popular player:

More invites: People want to play with partners who make the game fun. Your attitude will get you more invites than your skills ever will.

Better performance: When you stay positive, you relax—and relaxed players play better.

Stronger connections: Padel is a social sport. A friendly attitude helps you build friendships that go beyond the court.

The Takeaway: Spread the Good Vibes

The next time you step onto the court, remember this: You don’t have to be the best player—just the most positive one. Bring the encouragement, the smiles, and the laughs, and you’ll always be a player people want on their team.

What about you? Have you ever played with someone whose positivity made the game unforgettable? Share your experience in the comments! 

Let’s Play Padel!